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我第一次听到有关性的话题是在四年级的时候。就我而言,那是历史上的一个转折点(1969年10月16日,应该是个星期三),那日以前性对于我是不存在的。在那颇值得纪念的日子,邻家的一个男孩,我们可以称他为包比,因為这是他的名字,告诉了我所有关于性的事情。回想起来,包比对整个事情的了解是相当困窘难堪的,我相信他是被教导成那个样子的,这也是為什麽他直到如今,特别拥有在这方面的辅导使命。 回想起来,我觉得自己也该从其它地方性之存在的,因為一直以来是有其它線索的,例如同一年的早些时候,简妮弗站在我们教室前面,她长长的黑头发就像受了霜害的柳枝一样垂向地面,“我姨妈不会有更多的孩子了,”她告诉我们“她的管... >Full Story

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  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 said: 親愛的Anne 感謝你的信任,從你的提問我可以感受到你很關心你的孩子,也能夠體會你的無奈,請問你有帶他去看過心理醫... Read More »
  • Anne said: 你好,我孩子今年20岁,他有忧郁症了,他不想去读书也不想找朋友,也不要看心理医生,也不出门,每天都在房里。他自己也... Read More »
  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 said: 非常感謝你的提醒,我們會馬上改善。以馬內利... Read More »