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~作者林丰梁 职场人际关系何等重要 在今天的社会中,大部分成年人的大部分时间都在职场工作。据统计,一般人平均每天有8.3小时在职场。若是扣除睡觉时间,我们一天清醒的时候,在职场的时间可能比在家里还长。我们每天在职场与他人的互动,与上司丶同事或部属的关系,常常影响我们的情绪。人际关系不好,对我们身心灵的健康有极大的伤害。 主耶稣告诉我们:「你要尽心丶尽性丶尽意爱主你的神。这是诫命中的第一,且是最大的。其次也相仿,就是要爱怜舍如同自己。这两条诫命是律法和先知一切道理的总纲。」(马太福音22:37-40)那谁是我们的邻舍呢? 在今天繁忙的社会中,我们与住在隔壁的邻居可能不相往来;但是同事们每天... >Full Story

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 译者:小瓦 问:大多数人倾向于比较间接地表达个人感受和内心需要,担心直接开口会惹人厌恶,甚至引起冲突。而且不少人把直抒己见与专横霸道划了等号。殊不知,如果我们不能委婉而肯定地直述自己的想法,那么不仅会失去彼此交流的机会,也将孕育失望、沮丧甚至愤怒等负面情绪。 当你不愿明白说出自己的需要时,就不得不兜圈子:“今天好像天气不错……邻居都出去打网球了。”或者“报纸上讲这周日有个手工艺术品展览会。”然后盼望你的朋友或配偶会接上话来。但不管你暗示、强迫或只是被动等候,其实问题并... >Read More



良好人际关系Strenthen Relationship

By 译者:钱珊丽 只要稍为跨出自己的世界一小步,你便自然而然成为团体的一员了。 大多数的人都隶属于某些团体;无论是商场或职场、婚姻或家庭成员、教会或事工;也有支持某政党或参与某体育活动的自发性义工。 然而在日积月累的人际关系运作中,团队活动也偶见问题。 攻击诽谤开始像砂纸一样互相磨蚀,小的口角极容易浮现台面。一个团队可能就因它成员的躁动、攻讦而自行瓦解。 无论是婚姻或社团,当我们参与其运作之际,总以为带来的只是自身一串串的优点,鲜少有人谈论每个人所带来各式包装好的缺点... >Read More



如何建立「好关系」Building Relationship

中 国人喜欢讲「关系」,有人说「有关系就没关系,没关系就很有关系了」,虽然象是绕密码一样,但是,却是很真实的;其实,我们的神是最注重「关系」的,整本 圣经里所着重的就是「爱」的关系,也就是最好最妙的「好关系」;从旧约到新约,都在讲述圣父和圣子对人的爱,就好象是一本神写给人的「情书」。 神...... >Read More



倾听技巧 Communication Skills

你曾经被人埋怨过不专心倾听吗?有时候尽管我们很努力试著要听对方说话, 也难免会有没听懂、或者错误解读对方的失落感。没有专心倾听伴侣说话,是导致婚姻陷入困境的一个重要原因。很多婚姻谘商人员都常听到诸如此类的一句话:「他从来不听我说话。」或是「他从来不了解我心里的感受。」能够专心倾听对方说话是健康婚姻中的一个重要特征。当别人专心听我们说话时,我们就会觉得自己被看重、被了解、被接纳。要能积极的倾听肯定,再加上以爱心、肯定、同理心做为沟通基础,你肯定成为一个很受欢迎的人。 根据... >Read More



忧虑正耗盡你的生命吗Life Consumed With Worry

[vimeo 88535877 w=640 h=360] 忧虑会耗盡你的生命吗? 忧虑是否停止了你的正常生活?? 当莱恩被忧虑侵扰时,很快地也影响了他的人际关系和健康情况。 親愛的朋友,耶 稣基督可以改变你的人生和你的困境,赐给你新的希望和崭新的生活目的。求神来改变你的人生,帮助你跳出困住你的深渊,神祂爱你,关心你。请将一切的忧虑卸 给神,因为祂顾念你们。你需要向祂倾吐你的難處,祂可以改变你和你的困境,帮助你的人生继续往前走。神能彻底改变你的人生,神... >Read More



被所爱的人抛弃Abandoned by Love

[vimeo 87161380 w=640 h=360] 卡珊卓的生命中最重要的两个男人,一个是她的父亲,一个是她的丈夫,卡珊卓的父母在她很小的时候就离婚,她的父亲在她十五岁的时候抛弃了她,完全走出她的生命,在那之后,卡珊卓发现自己很去难发展和其他的人际关系,如果她的父亲可以就那么一走了之,那么,很多人也都会那样;你曾经也感到被抛弃吗? 回顾你的生命,你觉得如何? 满足? 匆忙? 刺激? 压力重重? 在向前走? 或是在倒退? 大多数人都经历过上述的种... >Read More



人际关系的失败Failing With Relationships

[vimeo 72309290 w=640 h=360] 某个领域的成功,并不能保证人生所有领域的成功 。相对的,当你在很重要的领域失败,也不代表人生的全盤失敗; 西尔维亚已经在很多方面成功了,但是她意识到自己的人际关系需要更多的努力。 你有没有想过你的成功,可能影响了自己的人际关系?那麼,到底什麼才是真正的成功呢? 亲爱的朋友,你在寻找人生的意义吗?其实 神早就告诉我们答案,爱我们的神早就已 经计划好如何让我们成为一个更美好、更满足的人。在 神眼中... >Read More


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