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  • Su says:

    我的男友曾經離過婚。 跟他在一起總是感到痛苦也對他的前一段婚姻感到嫉妒。他的前妻長的很漂亮,而我總是感到自卑,覺得自己很丑。我們已經在計劃婚姻但有時只要想到他過去的婚姻就感到難過,有時會跟主抱怨爲何安排一個離婚的男人給我。而那些他前妻留下來的東西看了就很憤怒。雖然他的前妻已經又在婚了但我還是感到難過。如何跟一個離過婚的男人交往呢?

  • 张志国 says:

    我和我的爱人都是基督徒,可是就因为我对她不好,我的爱人和我离婚了,我们还有一个女儿,我想挽回我们的婚姻,请弟兄姊妹帮助我。

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    亲爱的志国,
    谢谢你到成功了网站来,同时也透过代祷和我们谈心。
    首先我在这你一同祷告:「慈悲天父啊,我要为志国向您感恩。你宝贵他就像宝贝眼中的瞳仁一样,你连我们每个人的头发都数算过,你必然深知他内心的呼求,在这个困难的时刻,我恳求主再一次肯定你对他的爱,赐给他平安喜乐 。 请你帮助她力量、足够的恩典 ,让他安静在上帝的面前,心里平静安稳,在等候的时候,更深地经历你的同在和恩典,他渴望挽回婚姻求你帮助他。奉主的名祷告,阿门。」
    Serena

  • 婷婷 says:

    我陷在爱情的漩涡里,我是基督徒!从小就是,是个有重生生命的基督徒,我却爱上一个非基督徒,这让我感到愧疚,可却深深的爱上,两年了我一直在为他祷告,上帝的时间好像没有到!我不知道要怎么解决这段爱情,战胜肉体好难!我却对他还抱有幻想,幻想上帝能够拣选他!是不是我拦阻了上帝拣选他的路?我想退出有怕失去他,永远失去他!我该怎么办?我不知道有没有人会看到我写的这些!希望上帝看得到!

  • panpan says:

    Thank you for your e-mail, I really do not know how to do? I have been afraid.
    In fact, there are a matter trapped rope 2 years. I have been afraid to face up to it, because they do not know God wants me to do, but also afraid of is not wrong.

    This matter in my mind for two years. My heart knowing that God’s mission.
    God’s mission is to change the fate of the Chinese mental patients with 2015.

    Really, I can not believe I can not believe. I could not even my sister is mental patients can not be changed. How to change them?

    I called Pan nanyi, whose real name is Pan Xiaoxia. Pan nanyi is the name that God gave me.
    Because Pan, with a blue mission.
    And this mission is to wait for five years. That is, 2015.

    As you know, mental illness is the world’s most difficult to treat disease. I grew up by this disease made very afraid.
    Home, six children are daughter, two anyone to adopt a child. There are also four at home.
    Unfortunately, however, is that the sister is a university graduate students. In her high school suffered from mental illness.
    Mental illness so that our family owed a lot of debt. And brought to a lot of damage to the family.
    And then. The mother also died. The family still owes a debt of 20 tens of thousands of.

    I will not make money daughter. Because there is no son, the idea of ​​home is too feudal. So from small to large. Grandfather mother does not like us.
    Because we are a daughter. They like boys.

    There are too many stories.
    Sister is a mental patient, family hate her, she is a waste. Even my father too.
    Because she often trouble. There are not working, too. Do not work. With days like.

    I’ve always had a wish, hope she can get better. God, I believe you, but she can get better? If, sister, mental illness can not get better. How can I go to change the fate of others with mental illness.

    I just want to say. I really can not do it.
    Because I have no money.
    I do not have the background.
    Because I do not have any talent.
    I am not a star.

    God, what am I to change the fate of mental patients.

    I admit it. Change the spirit of the patient’s been, I would like to do in my heart.
    In 2015. I would also like to write their own sketches on the Chinese Spring Festival Gala.
    I do not know why it is 2015.

    Honestly, I really thought had been a big star.
    I can not play the star.
    I only know that, in 2015, I must contact the party on China’s Beijing Spring Festival.
    We all know that. . Mental illness is the world’s most difficult to treat disease.

    Mental illness is not the money can be cured. I only know that mental illness is heart disease.

    Really, I hate this disease, because of mental disease the number of families. Some even homeless. By a family member on the floor.

    Really. Take the sister mental illness is a good example.
    The sister patients with mental illness for 10 years. Bachelor’s degree, but there has been no work, not spent in the community. To no.
    What technology did not. Been living in their own worlds.
    Really, I would like to change her. But she can not be changed. Because of her thoughts.
    She committed suicide last year. Careless feet fall. Can not walk.

    My dad, afraid. Thrown at me. Called me to the outside, to find someone casually married.

    I heard these words, I am very sad.

    Unfortunately, because of her, bringing home, bringing the eyes to look down on.
    Her psychotic episode 6. To see her father often lied to her marriage. Often used in some bad ways. Did you know? This will harm her lifetime.
    Because she does not know how to take care of themselves.
    Because she did not work.
    Because of her ideas with others.
    Because of her, not technical.
    Because she spent in the community did.

    She even take care of the poor. Her how to take care of her husband.

    She is 30 years old.

    Sometimes, think about it, her suicide is a good thing, her feet hurt, and is a good thing.
    If there is no such
    She can not be with me. Because the father would not let me.
    Therefore, more thank God.

    I have a dream in mind, is to change the fate of mental patients.
    But I could not even the spirit of the fate of the sister can not be changed.
    How to change the fate of the spirit of the patient’s affected the whole world.

    God, you told me to play an international joke?
    I how could that be?
    I how could that be?
    I how could that be?

    How do I do?
    How do I do?
    I was afraid of?

    The change of mental patients, is easier said than done things. I am in the end how to do?

    But I really believe in God, but do not believe in themselves.
    On several occasions, with their own dialogue.
    Possible? You may be?
    My own heart to answer, I can not?

    The spirit of patients around the world so much, to change a mental patient, was a difficult thing of the year.
    Let alone change the world patients is an incredible thing.
    I know that in God’s eyes, nothing impossible.

    Because God can do anything. God is God.

    Sometimes, I think I want to earn a lot, a lot of money in order to help them.
    But mental illness is very costly. No one is willing to help the mentally ill to come out.
    Mental illness to spend a lot of money, not necessarily good.

    Sometimes, think about it, I could not even own the debt is not repaid. How possible.
    Really, you do not laugh at me. In the present society. People will say, you can not solve.
    How do you solve the others?

    It did not dare to tell people that. Afraid of being laughed at me.
    But I was well aware that this is God’s mission.
    This is a great mission. I can not be done.
    But God can do it.

    Mental patients, it is difficult to find a job. To take medicine. So, most are not working.
    Said it is waiting to die.

    If mental patients in a poor family, it is a very sad thing. In my opinion, many people think she is tired of the package. Regardless of her.

    Because of this disease because there are too many mental patients are staying at home. Themselves living in the world of them.

    Out of touch with society.

    Easier said than difficult to start.
    I thought. I want to write a book.

    Want to bring the world through this book.
    Because I have no way, only through the Internet. Because the Internet to the world.

    And toward the world each foot fall.

    I do not know what I think is not right.
    Because I always want to open the home to help mental patients employment company.
    Is against the spirit of patients around the world.

    Difficult. Difficult. Say no one willing to cooperate.
    But I have no money.
    I have only one change to the spirit of the patient’s heart.
    Again is God’s mission.
    Else nothing.
    But I believe the Emperor.

    Honestly, I write the purpose of this book.
    Is looking for a team of the world.
    Help team of excellent mental patients.
    I am not good.
    Because I am not good enough. So I than the others night long. Night long in order to run it.

    Perhaps you will say, my idea is wrong.

    I scared. He said. Would prefer people say that I was wrong.

    But I can not deceive his own heart. This is God’s mission.
    But I was very upset. . . . Do not know.

    So please help me? Okay?

    pannanyi

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    Dear Lord,please give pannanyi clear guidance as she seeks for your leading. In Jesus name I pray. AMEN

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    亲爱的婷婷:
    谢谢你到新俪人网站来,同时也愿意透过电子信和我们谈心。
    你喜欢上一個不信主的男友,我了解这实在是件很痛苦的事,爱情的最终目的是进入婚姻生活,所以你要有这方面的智能来做选择,并且为了不增加你日后的麻烦,与男性你必须很慎重的选择交往。很高兴你来到新丽人网站寻求帮助,这是你展现你智能的第一步。我很关心你,希望能为你解惑,以下有些建议,对你会有帮助。我期待很快看到你重展灿烂的笑容,重新开始你的人生!
    谈爱情是很浪漫的,但是一个人不可能永远在谈恋爱,至终是要进入婚姻生活。当然恋爱阶段也是很重要的,在这个阶段里,你可以了解交往的对象,可以彼此认识,可以学习如何彼此相处。这个阶段的学习可以帮助你决定是否与这个交往的对象,进入婚姻的阶段。在这个阶段里也有一些要注意的事情,因为只是朋友的关系,所以在金钱使用、身体的接触等方面都要保持距离,要有分寸,要有诚意,不利用对方也不被利用,不伤害对方也不被伤害。交往的过程双方都不可以同时交往好几位异性朋友,如果谈不来可以友善的分手,再开始另一位的交往,这样才不会伤害彼此。
    婚姻不是一件容易的事情,婚礼是很浪漫的,在婚礼那一天新郎新娘是全场瞩目的焦点,但是要知道,整个婚姻生活只有这一天是这样风光的,从当天晚上开始,就进入真枪实弹彼此折磨的开始。你一定觉得我在危言耸听,所有结过婚的人都会有同感,你听过结婚是恋爱的坟墓吗?这是真的。结婚之后,所有婚前的浪漫时光都不见了,每天呈现在你面前的是甩不掉的麻烦事,从家庭经济到双方家族的相处,到彼此个性的磨合,到儿女的扶养,管教等问题,等等一箩筐的问题。如果没有上帝的爱在家庭里滋润的话,没有一个婚姻是可以功成身退的。如果有,也是某一方为了维系家庭的和谐,忍气吞声一辈子,社会上的怨偶多的不得了。因此,如果在结婚前能够发现两个人不合适,赶紧踩煞车还算幸运的,否则日后的痛苦会比先前还大。
    婚姻生活有许多的责任和义务。婚前考虑清楚,婚后就义无反顾。夫妻相处最要紧的就是两个人心灵能不能彼此分享。如果外在条件甚么都很完美,心灵却不能分享,这样的婚姻不会幸福。甚么是心灵分享呢?那就是当你有任何问题,任何想法,都迫不及待的想要告诉他,而对方也能懂你所说的,能够跟你在许多问题上,开诚不公的讨论、交换意见、彼此体谅了解。两个人有这样的默契,将来在人生道路上,遇到任何挫折困难,都可以一起承担面对。
    在交往的过程中祈求上帝给你智能,能够彼此学习。你可以到新丽人网站浏览,有许多这方面的文章可以让你参考,增加你的阅历,多读这些文章可以让你有很多的法宝去运用。为你祷告求上帝保守你的身心灵都平安快乐。

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    親愛的主耶穌,你是又真又活的神, 请你帮助志国在祷告中经历你的同在,在困難中有足夠的恩典。奉主的名祷告,阿门。

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    感謝神帶領你到新麗人網站。請你點擊以下文章,盼望能夠幫助你解決對他前妻嫉妒。以馬內利
    http://chenggongle.com/discover/sex-love/jealous/

  • Juliet says:

    Hi,peace.

    I am a Christian with experience in consulting, can I join you to be a mentor?

    I am living in Shenzhen china.

    Juliet

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    Dear Juliet
    Thank you so much for your passion in serving as a mentor.
    Would you o fill out the Mentor Application https://www.thementorcenter.com/team/mentoring/
    And then receive training after approval.
    Love
    Serena

  • 赖彦宏 says:

    你好,我是最近发觉我太太患了忧郁症的,之前因为不懂和工作忙的原因都没有在意。这次去医院查了患了重度忧郁症,她多疑,孤僻,没有真正和她交心的朋友,喜欢一个人待着,特别是患病的时候,可以2天不起来,都卧床,一天就吃一餐,前几天我出差,顺便去看我们1岁的儿子(我们的儿子是我父母带的,)她也要去,非要从700公里的地方过去,她当时怀孕42天了,我考虑到舟车劳累,不让她去,所以骗她我不去。她不信,硬要去看看我有没有骗她,结果去了,我们见面时是晚上11点,她一见到我就把我手机都摔了,我当时很气愤,离她而去,第二天早上11点,我到爸妈那里,看到她发给我爸妈的信息,感觉有点不对劲,赶紧跑到酒店,结果她想自杀,被我制止了,我真的很难受,怎么办啊。

  • Serena Wang 蔡佩芬 says:

    親愛的彦宏
    謝謝你的回應和信任,將你內心深處的困擾和我們分享。我可以感受到内心的挣扎,承受了很大的压力,我也替你感到无奈。忧郁症有共通症状,其情绪是悲哀的,思想是负面的,行为是毫无生气的。在生理症状上,沮丧的人会失去胃口,体重会减轻,睡眠品质不好,不是失眠就是睡得过多,这些特征往往伴随着一般性的焦虑,表现出恐惧、不确定感以及优柔寡断。

      在臨床上也見到女性的憂鬱常發生於長年未解的婚姻生活困境,這也常要女性個人與家庭付出痛苦的代價。在所有类型的忧郁症中,病人的治疗最重要的部分就是精神方面。最健康的治疗之路是,诚实且深入的评估所有的这三种因素——生理的、心理的及灵性的层面。忧郁并不是一种无法治愈的疾病,就算那些已经罹患忧郁症数月甚至数年之久的人,只要有适当的治疗也能够获得痊愈。不管沮丧的根源是什么,只要获得适当的心理、生理和心灵的协助,患者都是有希望的,能重新过健康快乐的生活。

    忧郁症患者有思想偏差,所以帮助他们要先解开心结,让他们看到希望,重建信心,有力面对困难。其实,患病固然不幸,心理颓废更是不幸。绝望 者病愈率偏低;开朗者病愈率较高,因他有斗志。圣经教导:「喜乐的心,乃是良药;忧伤的灵,使骨枯干。」(箴言十七22)你现在最需要是重建对夫妻关的信任。除了用愛心花时间,别无捷径。

    愿神保守赐福你 佩姐

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